hair story

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Oftentimes, your hair tells a story that coincides with who you are as a person. I am seriously all about the metaphors, and I think my hair story really says a lot about who I am. In times of stress or unease, it's really beneficial to reflect on the aspects of my hair that I've grown to love, so thank you for reading! I hope it inspires you to love your locks. My natural hair is dirty blond/light brown. I kept it natural for all of my childhood, up until I dyed it red in high school. That was the first time I'd done anything different color wise. Red was the best decision I had ever made! It fit my personality and made me feel so comfortable in my skin all throughout my teen years. But the real bulk of the story I wanted to explain was when I decided to get rid of my beloved red hair last year. 

Last summer I did not feel like myself. So I decided to bleach it all away. Part of me was rationally thinking "it's just hair" but the other part of me was terribly insecure, especially when it came to family members asking why I got rid of my beautiful color, or why I wanted to ruin the texture. It's not super fun to hear that when you just made a change. But I knew I wanted pink hair at least once in my life, and what a fun adventure it would be! But it was hard. Without the red I kept questioning my look, and each new bleach brought more damage to my precious head of hair.

 
Self confidence is so important and such a strong influence on a person's happiness. A year later and my hair is just peachy🍑👌🏼😉 And so am I! I have my less confident days, but everyone does! When I took this picture I was 100% happy with my not-so-healthy, but still well-loved peach hair. Change is probably one of my worst enemies but I just wanted to prove to myself that it creates beautiful results, even if sometimes the results start out as a half red, half yellow head of hair. (It was an interesting ride, and it's not over yet) 

There are days when my hair feels and looks like a tangled mop. But those days aren't everyday, and rather then focus on the imperfections I want to focus on the good. Today my hair is an ever-changing mixture of peach, pink, and white, and even though I am a big  fan of consistency, I've found comfort in the fact that my hair changes as I do. Since moving to New York everything about me definitely feels more colorful, and now my hair shows it.
 
  
much love,
 
Marilyn

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